June 9, 2021

Here’s an exercise to give you an idea of how close you are to your dream of having your baby. This is based on personal experience in working with fertility clients for 20+ years.

First, write down the qualities of the mother you see yourself being.

Some of these qualities may include being unconditionally loving, infinitely patient, forgiving, present, positive role model, setting boundaries, fun, etc.

Don’t cheat. Write down the qualities first before you read further.

Now, with complete honesty (don’t worry – no one’s looking), on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 meaning that quality describes you very accurately), how closely do you embody these qualities?

The closer you are to them, the more magnetic you become to your baby. Great job! Now, look for the signs, manifestations, and synchronicities showing you that the energy is moving into place and life is flowing easily. I envision it like the transporters in Star Trek “beaming” your spirit baby’s energy into you and converting energy into physical matter but taking a lot longer. 🙂

On the other hand, the farther you are from those qualities, the more course correcting you should do on your fertility journey. Cultivate those qualities that need a little touching up in your daily life. Be more loving, patient, and forgiving with yourself and your partner. Set boundaries with your friends and family and stick to them. How can you inject more fun into your life?

When you’re over 35 years, this is more than a physical journey of egg quality and uterine flow. It becomes an emotional journey of how effectively you can master your feelings and thoughts to direct them to create the future you want.

You get what you expect, not what you want. So make sure your expectations align with your vision.

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